sooo i’m the character on the left i tried with the fact that Astarion was the character selected at the moment then activated the cheat for stats THEN selected Shadowheart AS instructed by the note CONNECTED to the stats editor
then saved AS instructed and it was Astarion that got the stats boost so thought that maybe i should have saved first then reload as controling Astarion so i did and then followed the instructions of the mod TO THE LETTER and still ended up with just Astarion being the king of the hill and Shadowheart being the bottom rung of the ladder